It is quite inevitable that in this advanced world of texting, instant messaging, social media commenting and image posting, the language used has also taken a revolutionary change where simple sentences like “What you doing” have changed to “WYD” which is not only always to save time but also to appear cool and mingled in with the supposedly cool crowd of around the globe!
Similarly, other acronyms and slangs have prominently emerged in the day to day language and conversations and some of the famous ones in the list definitely has the acronym “FWM” at the top. If you cannot figure out what “FWM” in any message refers to or you may be left wondering as to what one is pointing at when they use the acronym “FWM” on any online forum then no need to worry because in this article we will tell you in detail what “FWM” means and the contexts where it can be used and where it must be avoided.
The Full Form for “FWM”
It is imperative that one must at least know the full form of every abbreviation or acronym that one comes across because the full form definitely allows us to judge the contexts in which it can potentially be used and hence you do not have to remain confused when a novel situation just erupts with acronyms in play. FWM basically stands for F*** With Me. The asterisks are censoring the F-word which we are sure that you can spell on your own!
The “FWM” Meaning!
In order to make the use of this term a little friendlier and less derogatory, one can attempt using words like “talk” or “get” instead of the F-bomb word. Hence when anyone says FWM, what they actually mean to say is “please talk with me”!
It is not unusual to assume that FWM does have a negative meaning rather than portraying a friendly gesture for instance it seems to suggest things like “mess with me.” The meaning can be perceived in flirtatious or sexual way as well because of the usage of the F-word in this acronym hence one must use this acronym very carefully after considering the situation and the person you are addressing it to.
How FWM Is Used?
People usually use the terms FWM to explain their day to day interactions with their friends, spouses, dating partners, etc, and mainly the F-word has made this acronym a commonly used phrase in sexual relationships.
Youngsters especially teenagers of this era use this acronym more often than others because it makes them feel cool and confident in terms of their social status. People may use this to express their emotions or to give a hint to the other person in terms of their liking or even set limits to what they will tolerate in any conversation from the other person. The interpretation of this acronym hence depends on the context it is used in and the kind of frankness you have with the other person.
Let’s be smart about this, of course, one would never use any acronym or a common reference that even remotely contains the F-word in front of your elders such as your parents, grandparents, teachers, professors and even bosses. However if its your casual friend or your partner then this word can safely be used in any conversation.
Whether to use the FWM Acronym Online or in Chats or not?
FWM is one of those terms that it used and is common in a particular crowd such as teenagers and youngsters who play at such stunts for a fake ego boost to say the least. However no matter what age you are at or what social circle you belong to, if you really feel the need to use this acronym then before posting it online or sending it in a text message you must first answer the following questions
- Does using this acronym offends or disrespects the other person? If you think that the other person will definitely perceive this as derogatory and you may have to offer an apology then you must not use it.
- Are you using this term as projection of your negative emotions about your relationship by expressing anger? If yes then you must tell yourself that there are other healthier outlets that you can use to express and let out your anger rather than projecting it on online forums.
- Are you running away from addressing any important issue in life with a specific person? If yes then you may find yourself using this word in your general conversations simply to bleed out in anger on other people which isn’t a fair thing to do.
- Who am I talking with? Once must consider the relationship that they have with the person on the other end. Like we have already mentioned that one must refrain from using the F-word in front of their elders because it is just disrespectful however with casual friends and partners this can very well be used in any conversation.
We hope now we have shed enough light on how FWM can be used. Be wise folks! words used right may weigh gold in them!